Getting busy with your partner between the sheets can be the time of your lives, or not. And that is when you desperately start paying some visits to a sex therapist
What went through our minds was a very curious question: what complaints do sex therapists hear the most?
- I can’t orgasm the “real” way.
In fact, only about 15-20 percent of all women can climax during sexual intercourse. Too many reasons can keep a lady from hitting the big O.
- We have mismatched sexual desires.
There is naturally one partner who craves sex more than the other, and that always leaves someone disappointed.
- I’m having performance issues.
Men’s premature ejaculation (PE) and erectile dysfunction (ED) can cause them to avoid sex and intimacy which makes their female partners feel insecure and no longer wanted,
- I want to spice up our sex life, but my partner isn’t interested.
He probably likes it wild, while she prefers it more traditional, or vice versa. While one partner might enjoy trying new positions, the other may not want to try.
- We want t go back to having “before baby” sex.
They can’t find enough time anymore, or they are unable to feel one another.
- I have a lower sex drive than my wife.
… and that’s when she starts thinking that he’s cheating on her.
- I have a lower sex drive than my husband.
Her sexual desire is plunging, so we better find out why!
- I want to feel more emotionally connected to my partner.
When passion is missing, one would struggle to genuinely feel the connection.
- My partner is ill but we still want to keep our sex life active.
When one partner is sick, he/ she might feel undesirable for sex!
- We are stuck in sexless marriage.
Low-sex marriage leads to cheating then BOOM, divorce! Well, unless you talk to a sex therapist about it before.
So tell us, what would you, yourself, whine to your sex therapist about?
